The Mama Shrink Podcast with Dr. Cynthia Edwards-Hawver is a raw, compassionate space for midlife moms navigating the emotional aftermath of toxic relationships, narcissistic abuse, divorce, and burnout. Hosted by a licensed psychologist and certified coach with 25+ years of experience (and lived it herself), Dr. Cynthia dives deep into the hard stuff: gaslighting, single parenting, parallel parenting with a high-conflict ex, emotional exhaustion, identity loss, grief, and healing. Each episode brings insight, validation, and real tools for women parenting through pain and trying to rebuild their lives—without shrinking themselves in the process. Whether you’re recovering from a toxic marriage, trying to set boundaries, or just crying in your car between drop-offs, you’re not alone. Subscribe now to reclaim your strength and take your next brave step toward healing.
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Tuesday Sep 19, 2023
Tuesday Sep 19, 2023
Have you ever found yourself constantly drained by toxic relationships and overwhelmed by obligations? What if I told you there's a powerful tool to change this cycle?
In this episode, I dive deep into the art of setting boundaries – a crucial skill that can transform your life. I share my insights as a certified coach, discussing why people often resist change and explaining the connection between boundaries and self-worth. I emphasize that we teach people how to treat us, and provide practical examples of how to communicate assertively, even in challenging situations. We explore the fear of disappointing others, the liberating power of saying "no," and the need to prioritize our own well-being.
The essence of setting boundaries lies in understanding that we can't change others, only ourselves. People tend to resist change unless forced by a significant event. We need to teach others how to treat us by modeling self-respect. Assertiveness, can often be mistaken for aggressiveness, which is actually not true. A crucial aspect is to consider both our rights and the other person's rights when being assertive. Setting boundaries isn't about being selfish; it's about preserving our energy and mental health. Practicing the art of saying "no" and evaluating requests that life places on us daily, can lead to life-changing transformations.
Boundaries are the essential foundation for balanced relationships and self-care. Learning to set boundaries involves becoming assertive and recognizing that disappointment from others is natural but manageable. The impact of setting boundaries can be profound, leading to healthier connections and a more fulfilling life.
Key Takeaways:
- Boundaries teach others how to treat us and are essential for self-care.
- Saying "no" with grace and love can be transformative.
- Prioritize your time, delegate, and stop overcommitting to prevent burnout.
Resources:
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Love this!! I am so impressed. Setting boundaries is so important. Keep up the great work.
Monday Sep 25, 2023
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